10 years ago on 2 December 2015, my life changed forever when my sister was diagnosed with cancer. She was diagnosed with colon cancer ,and a year later, she began sharing her cancer journey
It’s been 10 years since I started asking, “Why my sister? Why does she have to be diagnosed with cancer? Why can’t it be another older relative in the family?” While I had these questions, my sister, on the other hand, was relieved that someone finally believed her that something was wrong with her body and that it wasn’t due to stress.
Over the past 10 years, life has been filled with much ambiguity. Initially, it was filled with uncertainty because I couldn’t predict the day my sister would be taken from me. Over the years, it was filled with doubts about whether I might one day be diagnosed with colon cancer. How would my parents and loved ones react to that news?
Despite this ambiguity, I have matured significantly over the last decade.
Despite her cancer diagnosis, my sister believed in advocating and sharing her journey. She felt strongly about it because she thought cancer was still a taboo that people rarely discuss. Her passing opened a new perspective for me, and I started sharing more about my grief journey while also encouraging those around me to undergo regular health screenings.
If I could change one thing about the past 10 years, I would wish she hadn’t had to wait so long for a diagnosis. Perhaps if she had been diagnosed earlier, life might have been different.
While colon cancer is one of the most common cancers in Singapore, a free FIT (Faecal Immunochemical Test) kit is usually available to older individuals. Colon cancer often goes undetected because the symptoms can be mistaken for IBS.
Most people diagnosed with colon cancer tend to be 50 or older, but there is a rising trend of younger individuals being diagnosed. Although younger people may not be eligible for a free FIT kit, they can request a referral from a local general practitioner for a colonoscopy.
A colonoscopy might seem intimidating because it involves inserting a scope into the intestine. Honestly, it doesn’t hurt, and it’s a quick procedure that takes no more than 4 hours.
Early detection is based on the belief that identifying problems early leads to better outcomes, less stress, and a stronger foundation for long-term health.
As we approach the holiday season, the greatest gift you can give your loved ones is your presence. If you notice something wrong with your body, you might be right! Arrange for a full-body check-up before it’s too late. (Haha, I sound like an insurance agent!)
Until your next health screening, continue living boldly!
